My Weakness

(Forgive me. A lot of what I just wrote below is just a lot of thinking release. I have no idea how much sense it will make, if any at all. I just need to get it all out of my head.)
So the last few days I've been having to deal with my one weakness, things happening beyond control. It's not like I'm a classic control freak, but I do have to admit I like it when things move smoothly. If they move smoothly under someone else's watch, I'm totally okay with that. But if things are not moving smoothly I have no problem stepping up to try to get things going again. In fact, over the last few years, I've grown in letting others take things over. But this is not the issue that I wanted to address, because there has not been a person who's botched it. It's the loss of control because life happens. Yes, there is no way of preventing that. But there is a way to turn situations around to find some good in them. And this is one situation I'm not sure if it can be spun into a good light.
A few weeks ago, I thought there might be something more wrong with my wrist. And I mentioned that before. I think I even mentioned about how I sent off those emails about the play and teaching. The funny thing is that I've gotten no response back on those. But I did have that bone scan today. On the bright side, my circulation is good. So that means that the pain I have is not because of inflammation. On the other side, the scan did show that there is something wrong in the joint--but this I already knew. There is now just a bit of clinical evidence. And that is good. It's something that can be seen. What's not so good... the doctor who oversaw the scan, it is his opinion that the problem is in the cartilage. This I don't know how to process. After all my doctor, he checked both sides of the cartilage when he operated on me back in April. And it was his opinion that there was nothing wrong with it then, that it was perfectly fine. So now there's the wait for about a week and a half until I can get in to see my doctor and find out what his take is on this scan.
All in all that should be good news. There's proof that there's something wrong. My prayers are being answered. I'm still okay with the idea of a second surgery. What I have not been okay with is the fact that with this option, I have had to move backwards in so many areas. I am not working and can't look for employment. (But on the bright side, the employment agency I had been in touch with said they will keep my information and all I have to do is give them a call when things get taken care of.) But I am still in the dark as to what will happen with the play. And I will have to take time away from my class. Even though in my heart, I know all of this is just a temporary setback, it's not clear forward movement.
Speaking of forward movement.... I'm not sure what to do at all with that guy that I really like. We were supposed to get together next week, but I've not heard anything from him in about two weeks now. I just don't get it at all! On one hand there's every indication that he likes me. Then on the other, it's clear that he's not taken with me. Because if he truly was taken, he'd be calling, emailing, or something frequently. I had such hope that this man was potentially something. But I'm beginning to think otherwise. And that hurts. It hurts a lot. Not devastatingly so, but it still hurts. Tonight I texted him if the plans were still on. So far no word. If I don't hear anything in a day or two, I'll flat out ask him if we are even talking anymore (just to have some closure).
I want and deserve someone to be crazy for me. So I put myself out there again. Not even an hour ago, I looked into Equally Yolked. I just need to get out and socialize, have fun, meet lots of men in person. In person for me is really good anyway. Besides that, this company actually interviews people in person before they become members. They weed out the married men and their profiles list marital history. That takes a load off of my mind. It's one less thing to have floating around. Besides, I have to do something. I'm not meeting anyone and that has to change.